Comments on: Hurt http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/ Web development and Internet trends Tue, 06 Jan 2009 04:16:52 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.1 By: Would you want to know when you will die? - Robert’s talk http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-39324 Would you want to know when you will die? - Robert’s talk Thu, 01 Mar 2007 07:58:17 +0000 http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-39324 [...] r lives. Would you want to know?   Related reading I’m afraid of dying Hurt Posted in Personal/life Add to: Digg, Del.icio.us, Ma.gnolia [...] [...] r lives. Would you want to know?   Related reading I’m afraid of dying Hurt Posted in Personal/life Add to: Digg, Del.icio.us, Ma.gnolia [...]

]]> By: Robert Nyman http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1558 Robert Nyman Mon, 07 Nov 2005 08:11:18 +0000 http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1558 Long time since I saw you here, Jewel! And thanks! I guess I look ok... :-) Long time since I saw you here, Jewel!

And thanks!
I guess I look ok… :-)

]]> By: Jewel http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1555 Jewel Sun, 06 Nov 2005 23:58:09 +0000 http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1555 Just seen your pic on your new map. Being bald definitely suits you, Robert. :-) Just seen your pic on your new map. Being bald definitely suits you, Robert. :-)

]]> By: Robert Nyman http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1496 Robert Nyman Tue, 01 Nov 2005 19:17:41 +0000 http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1496 quinn, Thank you for sharing! Laura, No problem, I actually regard it as very funny! Oh, the irony... :-) quinn,

Thank you for sharing!

Laura,

No problem, I actually regard it as very funny! Oh, the irony… :-)

]]> By: Laura Herald http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1495 Laura Herald Tue, 01 Nov 2005 18:09:25 +0000 http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1495 no disrespect but its an ironic shame the google ads seem to feed ads for hair extensions off the back of this no disrespect but its an ironic shame the google ads seem to feed ads for hair extensions off the back of this

]]> By: quinn http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1482 quinn Mon, 31 Oct 2005 05:40:44 +0000 http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1482 Greetings and hugs to all, long away from Japan, This is almost like the post I did in my blog a few weeks ago. I wonder if you had a chance to read it. My post was shorter than yours and not much details though. I lost my dad about three years ago, but almost same time, I became a father of two kids. My mother thought she was going to live alone when she found out about my father's cancer. Now, she lives with me, my wife, and THREE grandkids (a baby included) in a small house. It seems to be just fine for all of us together. Greetings and hugs to all, long away from Japan,
This is almost like the post I did in my blog a few weeks ago. I wonder if you had a chance to read it. My post was shorter than yours and not much details though. I lost my dad about three years ago, but almost same time, I became a father of two kids. My mother thought she was going to live alone when she found out about my father’s cancer. Now, she lives with me, my wife, and THREE grandkids (a baby included) in a small house. It seems to be just fine for all of us together.

]]> By: Robert Nyman http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1453 Robert Nyman Sat, 29 Oct 2005 21:53:03 +0000 http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1453 The morning after, when I woke up, my first thought was: <blockquote>Did I really post that?</blockquote> I still can't believe I did, but all of your comments, your stories and your willingness to share really touched me. A lot! Again: thank you for being there! All the best to you! The morning after, when I woke up, my first thought was:

Did I really post that?

I still can’t believe I did, but all of your comments, your stories and your willingness to share really touched me. A lot!

Again: thank you for being there! All the best to you!

]]> By: icaaq http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1451 icaaq Sat, 29 Oct 2005 06:11:57 +0000 http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1451 Big dreamworkhug! Because of you I now have the a interesting, fun and developing occupation. So send me a mail, grab your bald head and then we can go out to have a beer(or something). Talking about kids, developing with standards and lives upsn´dows. Big dreamworkhug! Because of you I now have the a interesting, fun and developing occupation. So send me a mail, grab your bald head and then we can go out to have a beer(or something). Talking about kids, developing with standards and lives upsn´dows.

]]> By: Dejan http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1450 Dejan Fri, 28 Oct 2005 14:17:00 +0000 http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1450 Robert, It is too well known fact that male hair loss is mainly due to excess of some hormons. Lucky you, all ladies can see level of your hormons from far away. :) Interesting enough, my father lost his hair in almost same age as you did, and I was almost preparing for the same destiny during my teenage years, so I was somehow puzzled when it did not happen to me. Hold on friend, we are all here to support you. Even hugs if you insist. But do not tell my wife. Robert,

It is too well known fact that male hair loss is mainly due to excess of some hormons. Lucky you, all ladies can see level of your hormons from far away. :)

Interesting enough, my father lost his hair in almost same age as you did, and I was almost preparing for the same destiny during my teenage years, so I was somehow puzzled when it did not happen to me.

Hold on friend, we are all here to support you.
Even hugs if you insist. But do not tell my wife.

]]> By: Árni Gunnar http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1449 Árni Gunnar Fri, 28 Oct 2005 11:57:48 +0000 http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1449 Hello Robert. Sent you a mail a few weeks ago regarding freelancing in Sweden. Just so you know who I am ;) I feel your pain, really I do. I too got into some trouble in school, and it was not very pleasant. The most horrific time in my live however, was in the summer and autumn of 2001. August 10th my wife gave birth to our first baby, 14 weeks early. Sadly he did not make it and died only 6 days old. Only three weeks later I lost my father in-law to cancer. He had battled heroicly for more than a year this horrible disease. 1 year (and 1 day, august 11th 2002) later, my wife gave birth to our second son, which is the light in our lives at the moment. After the "annus horribilis" 2001, we have seen all the little problems in life as not very important. Now we do not care how much money we have, or try to overwork ourselves to get to buy a new car. We know what is important in life, and have gotten some perspective on that. My point is, when a person goes through something terrible it gives that person a new outlook on life. People who go through life without nothing ever happening, seem to live life in another way than you and me. We have a saying in Iceland (don't know if it comes from another language). Anyway, it goes something like this: What does not kill you makes you stronger. And we have found that it is exactly the case. If I knew you at all, I would give you a hug in a second. Consider this message a hug from me to you :) Hello Robert.

Sent you a mail a few weeks ago regarding freelancing in Sweden. Just so you know who I am ;)

I feel your pain, really I do. I too got into some trouble in school, and it was not very pleasant. The most horrific time in my live however, was in the summer and autumn of 2001.

August 10th my wife gave birth to our first baby, 14 weeks early. Sadly he did not make it and died only 6 days old. Only three weeks later I lost my father in-law to cancer. He had battled heroicly for more than a year this horrible disease.

1 year (and 1 day, august 11th 2002) later, my wife gave birth to our second son, which is the light in our lives at the moment.

After the “annus horribilis” 2001, we have seen all the little problems in life as not very important. Now we do not care how much money we have, or try to overwork ourselves to get to buy a new car. We know what is important in life, and have gotten some perspective on that.

My point is, when a person goes through something terrible it gives that person a new outlook on life. People who go through life without nothing ever happening, seem to live life in another way than you and me.

We have a saying in Iceland (don’t know if it comes from another language). Anyway, it goes something like this: What does not kill you makes you stronger. And we have found that it is exactly the case.

If I knew you at all, I would give you a hug in a second. Consider this message a hug from me to you :)

]]> By: Erik http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1448 Erik Fri, 28 Oct 2005 10:01:34 +0000 http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1448 *kram* I always try to enjoy life when it's really fun :) It helps when it's not! And I can tell you a secret about baldness. My girlfriend thinks guys with no hair are really sexy. And I got a lot of curly hair ;) *kram*

I always try to enjoy life when it’s really fun :) It helps when it’s not!

And I can tell you a secret about baldness. My girlfriend thinks guys with no hair are really sexy.
And I got a lot of curly hair ;)

]]> By: Faruk AteÅŸ http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1447 Faruk AteÅŸ Fri, 28 Oct 2005 08:59:16 +0000 http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1447 There will be hugs at SXSW :) There will be hugs at SXSW :)

]]> By: inoodle http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1446 inoodle Fri, 28 Oct 2005 08:39:47 +0000 http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1446 BIG HUGs. Cancer sucks. So many people seem to get it. My mother (age 53) has battled it for 8 years, and recently went blind and became paralysed down her left side. Death seems like a relief for someone who has been so active previously. BIG HUGs.

Cancer sucks. So many people seem to get it. My mother (age 53) has battled it for 8 years, and recently went blind and became paralysed down her left side. Death seems like a relief for someone who has been so active previously.

]]> By: Maarten Leewis http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1443 Maarten Leewis Fri, 28 Oct 2005 08:14:13 +0000 http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1443 Not a post you should regret! It's always nice to see one open his heart. I understand how writing a release, it do it myself a lot. It's like holding a mirror in front of yourself and you learn about yourself while you write. It's amazing. I just don't post mine publicly, so therefor a lot of respect to you... Kram! Not a post you should regret! It’s always nice to see one open his heart. I understand how writing a release, it do it myself a lot. It’s like holding a mirror in front of yourself and you learn about yourself while you write. It’s amazing. I just don’t post mine publicly, so therefor a lot of respect to you…

Kram!

]]> By: Marco http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1442 Marco Fri, 28 Oct 2005 08:10:59 +0000 http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1442 Robert, Thanks for sharing this. Don't regret it in the morning either. I'm touched by your parts on having hurt people and your desire for forgiveness. I know how you feel. Luckily, the good guys do win. I know... I'm very happy for you things are going so well now. I believe you're a guy who deserves it. *hug* Robert,

Thanks for sharing this. Don’t regret it in the morning either. I’m touched by your parts on having hurt people and your desire for forgiveness. I know how you feel. Luckily, the good guys do win. I know…

I’m very happy for you things are going so well now. I believe you’re a guy who deserves it.

*hug*

]]> By: Chris http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1441 Chris Fri, 28 Oct 2005 08:03:21 +0000 http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1441 My mother lost against cancer at the age of 49. That was hard, but also it helps me seeing many things way relaxter than other people. *hug* My mother lost against cancer at the age of 49. That was hard, but also it helps me seeing many things way relaxter than other people.
*hug*

]]> By: Chris http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1440 Chris Fri, 28 Oct 2005 07:48:42 +0000 http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1440 Robert, I could have written about my life most of the things you wrote about your life. You see, you are not alone with your thoughts. It is also good that you wrote this article because it is about essential things. Hug. Robert,
I could have written about my life most of the things you wrote about your life. You see, you are not alone with your thoughts.
It is also good that you wrote this article because it is about essential things.
Hug.

]]> By: Tommy Olsson http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1439 Tommy Olsson Fri, 28 Oct 2005 06:40:47 +0000 http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1439 Robert, I recognise much of what you write about. Being treated badly for something you cannot help (such as being ugly) is really unfair. Unlike you, I never became 'hot', but I guess I've learned to live with that. I'm not balding, but like Steve I'm really grey and have been so since the age of 25. I'm at peace in life now. I've learned to accept that which I cannot change. I'll never be in a relationship, but so what? I had a pretty good upbringing by loving parents, who are still married (rare enough these days). I have a daughter whom I love very much, and who has grown up to be the sort of human being of whom I can truly say that I'm proud to be her father. I live in a nice place and I have a decent job. And I've been blessed with good health so far. <hug/> Robert, I recognise much of what you write about. Being treated badly for something you cannot help (such as being ugly) is really unfair. Unlike you, I never became ‘hot’, but I guess I’ve learned to live with that. I’m not balding, but like Steve I’m really grey and have been so since the age of 25.

I’m at peace in life now. I’ve learned to accept that which I cannot change. I’ll never be in a relationship, but so what? I had a pretty good upbringing by loving parents, who are still married (rare enough these days). I have a daughter whom I love very much, and who has grown up to be the sort of human being of whom I can truly say that I’m proud to be her father. I live in a nice place and I have a decent job. And I’ve been blessed with good health so far.

<hug/>

]]> By: Kalle Wibeck http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1438 Kalle Wibeck Fri, 28 Oct 2005 05:53:41 +0000 http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1438 Hi Robert (with a hug)! Life has truly given you some kicks'n'pushes, the question is; -Is it despite or because all this you turned out such a great guy!? At the age of 34, partly thin-haired and soon (this march) the father of two children. I belive that my own hard times actually were meant to be, in some strange fate:ish way, otherwise I wouldn't be who I am today... In the same way I'm greatful for your hard times, otherwise you would be who you are either, right!? Hi Robert (with a hug)!

Life has truly given you some kicks’n'pushes, the question is; -Is it despite or because all this you turned out such a great guy!?

At the age of 34, partly thin-haired and soon (this march) the father of two children. I belive that my own hard times actually were meant to be, in some strange fate:ish way, otherwise I wouldn’t be who I am today…

In the same way I’m greatful for your hard times, otherwise you would be who you are either, right!?

]]> By: Thame http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1434 Thame Fri, 28 Oct 2005 02:27:34 +0000 http://www.robertnyman.com/2005/10/28/hurt/#comment-1434 HUG HUG

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